Once you have found love, i suppose some people just sit back and accept that they have found the right person. They stop looking for love, and bask in the glory.
However, there are people who find their perfect love, and they continue to look for others. Almost as if continually checking if 'the grass is greener'. Can the grass ever be greener though?
You here stories, i'm one myself, where you have a perfect marriage/relationship and still your mind occasionally wanders and you end up making a stupid mistake... sometimes these mistakes are cast aside and you try and try again. But other end of divorce, in seperation... in disaster.
People do this is their first 12 months, or sometimes after 20 years... But why?
Should you live you life always searching for something more, or should you be happy with your lot?
As humans we are programmed to strive for the best. Better education, better career, better house, better holidays... and better relationships.
What i mean by this is that when things are good, things are brilliant, a couple is totally happy. they think life is wonderful and therefore they do not have this need to look for more.
However, then things are shite. rows are in abundance and people turn ugly. in because of this, the human nature of 'i will begin the quest for something better' kicks in.
But as we so often see, the grass so frequently turns from green to black when you make the jump over the fence.
isn't that true about life though?
ReplyDeletefrom the outside in, it always looks greener, and better.
people view your life as it.
but you know from the inside the view is completely different.
no one knows what the best is,
so you continually strive for it.
these are all quite...i can't think of the word.
i think you should go down another path.
the people who love only once in their lives are really the shallow people.
what they call their loyalty, and their fidelity,
i call either the lethargy of custom or their lack of imagination.
faithfulness is to the emotional life what consistency is to the life of the intellect;
simply a confession of failure
what you think about that ;)
xxx